Perhaps your decision is not in line with your values or some important aspect of your life. You may need to re-evaluate what you're trying to do. Remember that you will never know if a decision is right or wrong until it's acted upon. Every important decision involves risk and sometimes trade-offs. If you have a decision to make, make it today. And, more importantly, act on it today.'
So my commentary to this message is that INDECISION is a pretty uncomfortable place and state of being to be in. It's really no different than being stuck. That feeling of not being able to, whether it's because you can't or won't move forward and the silly thing is many times we aren't even quite sure why. Why won't we or can't we simply decide to remain put, right where we are and let it go or go for it and make the change, move forward and see where it takes us. But instead we choose, without even realizing that we've chosen, to continue to stay stuck. We just continue to go back and forth between this and that and never really enjoy or benefit from BE-ing anywhere in particular.
So here's a quick round of EFT to help us at least begin the step to opening up to making a decision so that we can choose either to remain where we are and do nothing more than be right here, right now or to move forward. So let's give this a go and get the heck out of STUCK!
Remember you can go to the PATHWAYS PAGE for more details on diagrams of the individual release points and instructions on how to self apply EFT.
KARATE CHOP POINT
Even though I can't seem to make a decision to save my life ... I deeply and completely love and accept myself.
Even though I've never been good at making decisions ... I love and accept all of me.
Even though I've been stuck and unable to choose my own thoughts and direction for as long as I can remember and honestly don't know why ... I deeply and completely love and accept myself an my feelings.
INDIVIDUAL RELEASE POINTS
Inside of Eye - I can't make a decision to save my life
Outside of Eye - I've just never been any good at making decisions
Under Eye - Even the little ones
Under Nose - I feel so stuck
Chin - I can't even choose my own thoughts
Collarbone - Let alone my own choices and decisions and I don't even know why
Under Arm - I've been stuck for so long I don't even know what direction I'm going in
Rib Point - It's almost scary that I don't control or can't control my own thoughts and direction in life
Top of Head & Heart Center - I'm stuck and I'm scared to make a decision in any direction for fear of making the wrong choice, the wrong decision and honestly it's been like this for as long as I can remember
NOW take a moment to allow this to absorb. Take a nice slow, deep breath or a few if you feel the need or want and simply let whatever is there to float to the surface and speak to you. Doesn't matter what it is, just allow it to be there. To surface. To say what it needs to and wants to say.
Repeat this again and again if you wish so that you are sure to become clearer on what is there that wishes to be heard and when you hear it, use it and go on further in your self application using EFT as your tool and technique to uncover more and release more, deeper and further until you are free from this hold and indecision. This fear of making choices for your self. This STUCK-NESS! :)
When you feel ready or even if you don't [I say that because you can always tap in some of the positives and then go back and repeat the issue over and over again any time you'd like] let's tap in some positives. Oh and by the way, just know that you can't do it wrong. Whatever fits here for you is the right way for you!!! Also on that note, if you ever don't quite like a word that I offer, change it. No harm done because again it's all about what fits for you. What speaks to and resonates with you!
NOW to change up and shift the energy a bit, tapping on each of the Individual Release Points simply state 'I love and accept myself' and whenever you feel the need, take a breath and allow the shift to settle, noticing it. Feel the new energy within.
I'd love to hear your experiences with this so please feel free to comment and/or share.
P.S. If you ever wish to take this further and would be interested in private sessions with me, just give me a call or shoot me an email and let's talk. I'm here to help guide you. To help you dig deeper and uncover any and all of the hidden, uncomfortable 'stuff' that seems to be standing in your way, making you feel stuck or limited or just not quite your JOYFUL self. Let me know ...